Making Love

The world has become so involved in perfecting the mechanics… the techniques… of sexual intercourse that so few are able to see and realize the beauty of the experience.
Emphasis is placed upon the individual’s ability to achieve an exciting orgasm. So few realize that orgasm is only the tip of the iceberg of pleasure.
True pleasure is discovered and enjoyed in the pursuit of the journey of sensual communion and consummation with someone deeply loved and cared for.

Making love should be like the spontaneous choreography of a creative dance of children at play. There are no inhibitions to sharing and they reveal elements of curiosity, innocence, vulnerability, and joy.
Just having “sex” is nothing more than a mechanically calculated physical activity that produces a short, though intense, carnal reaction leaving no real sense of satisfaction, fulfillment, or love. It is nothing more than a momentary thrill of physical gratification. Having “sex” merely manipulates the heightened sensitivity of the human reproductive organs.

Making love involves the entire “body naked”.
True satisfaction is not in the achievement of sexual climax… but in the mutual sharing and giving of one’s body, heart, and mind to the overall experience of physical arousal and emotional joy with someone you care deeply for.

Sensual communion in its purest form is neither passive or aggressive and is openly yet introspectively considerate of the passions and desires tenderly hoped for and needful to share. It is an ongoing experience full of joy and discovery, free from the inhibitions of societal constraints. There are no expectations… only wondrous anticipation of mutual sharing.

The depth of satisfaction is not in the release of sexual tension… but in the pursuit of the innocent, vulnerable, and loving journey of curiosity and discovery as you share freely and openly the pleasures and euphoria absolute oneness offers with someone you cherish and love.

Remember: This is a journey… not a destination.

When you have shared such an experience and cried together afterward for the beauty of the innocence learned, then you know you are succeeding in “making love”.